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Munch Behavior

​What's a munch? How do I get invited to one?

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  • When talking about spanking in public, keep in mind the environment you’re in. Not everyone in the restaurant, especially minors that might be there as guests or staff, has consented to listen to our conversations. When needed, use code words like “TTWD (This Thing We Do),” “Gardening,” “play,” etc… Also be mindful of the volume at which you speak.
     

  • Refrain from physical play at munches. Banter is fine as long as you follow the above guidance.
     

  • Refrain from pulling out implements in public. Again, not everyone in the bar has consented to see our version of “sex toys.”
     

  • Make conversation with the folks there. Try your best to talk with as many folks as you’re able and comfortable with.
     

  • DO NOT ask about childhood abuse. Any stance perceived as in support of child battery will be met with removal from the Discord.
     

  • Before taking any photos, make sure everyone has consented to be in it, including folks in the background.
     

  • Before posting or tagging anyone in a picture on social media (fetlife, twitter, instagram, etc) involving spanking or otherwise, be sure to get their explicit consent.

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Learn about our online behavior standards.

Learn about our party behavior standards.

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